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Why is this site here? What is the plan for it?
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By Charlie Nichols
InGratia.org Headquarters, Austin, TX
Early summer, 2001
Well… not quite a super-exciting or dramatic story, just a guy that made a realization during a conversation, cogitated a bit, then reflected some more… then brought forth one idea that led to another… with the help of some friends. Clear enough? 8-)

Actually, the real story is a few more paragraphs… but I'll try to keep it succinct. I had some friends/ex-roomies that were reserve US Army Special Forces Medics. We were discussing some of their career choices in the civilian world, when the subject of why they didn't want to work on a city EMS team came up… I don't clearly remember all ofthe specifics, but the main idea was that the pay was barely enough to make ends meet. Somewhere hovering between minimum wage and $10 bucks an hour for most city or private EMS members, even with their training… and I'm sure that Special Forces training is not entirely a sing-song to get through. I recall the story of the sheep that was shot and they had to keep it alive for some amount of time as their final exam… sorta makes you happy with even an essay question in most college classes, doesn't it?

I further pondered the amazing fact that these people that are tasked to save your life if you are in any number of dangerous situations probably didn't get compensated as much as a shift manager at your local burger chain. It sorta hit me like a ton of bricks, that the person that would tend my wounds IF I DID get hit by a ton of bricks (and survived even a few minutes) would possibly be worrying about paying rent as saving me. Not to disparage these heros at all!!! But there is a level of compensation justified for such full-time lifesavers, and I was pretty sure that an amount barely enough for one person to go to a movie (with no popcorn!) per hour was waaaaay under that justified amount.

So given the impact of my realization that these people were severely underpaid for the benefit that they give to society, my next thoughts of course went to the "if I had a million dollars" or "ya know what Bill Gates should do with some of that money?" dreams. I thought that if I ever get super rich or even significantly comfortable, I'd be sure to create a fund and make donations to some type of fund or lobby to make a wholesale increase in wages for these wonderful people.

I thought of the other types of people just like EMS workers that have to put up with either physical danger or severely emotionally draining work to help people that they don't even know… people that would perhaps hardly look at them on the street. I thought of emergency rooms, firefighters, foster parents, school teachers, substitue teachers, search and rescue teams (after seeing the movie "A Perfect Storm", what amazing people on that helicopter!) police (when they are not giving me speeding tickets 8-) and victims services, etc. All of these people, and so many more that I just haven't listed or realized, are willing to give of their time, effort, emotional and physical energy, and sometimes their very lives to help people when they get in trouble. What an amazing thing for them to do! How appreciative we should be of them! How we should thank the firefighter or EMS we see in the burger joint and say "this meal's on me"… or send a gift certificate or theatre tickets to teachers, or flowers to an emergency room for the staff for once, not the patients. We could do just little things to brighten their days and let them all know that we do appreciate what they do for us all… or may in fact do for us personally one day if we are in trouble.

Sorry that this is getting longer than I thought, but the next conversations were with some friends Morty, Deb, Rich and Mel… I discussed my general thoughts while on the lake in Morty's boat, with a few beers in hand… (talking about something to be thankful for in the Austin summer heat!) and after chattin' around some, the idea hatched to do what little I could by working on a website that let people tell their stories and thank the people that had helped them at one point. Then others, by reading the stories, could understand what some of these heros add to our lives and our "civilization" by their daily jobs… and donate to organizations that can help these folks. Widows and orphans funds, education funds, burn foundations, conservation funds, Coast Guards etc. and of course thank these people in person with any small favor you can do for them.

So that's the big story, how I came to devise this grand scheme to benefit people that do so much for us and our loved ones. Sorry it wasn't a Danielle Steele romantic cliffhanger or a Tom Clancy rollercoaster, but sometimes the truth can make you think and ponder what you can do a little more… they say truth is stranger than fiction… I say these people make the term "civilized" come true every day.

Be Safe and Thanks!

Charlie


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